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What Does It Mean to Be a First-Generation College Student?

Written by Melanie Trindade | Nov 13, 2025 1:40:26 PM

Every year on November 8th, we celebrate First-Generation College Day - a day to recognize the students who are the first in their families to take the leap into higher education. Whether you’re already in college or you’re a high school senior planning to be the first to go, this day is for you.

Being a first-gen student is something to be incredibly proud of. You’re not just working toward your own goals, you’re setting a new path for your family, your future, and the generations that follow. But we also know it can come with a mix of excitement, uncertainty, and a little bit of “wait, how does this all work?”

So, to all our first-gen students out there - we see you, we’re cheering for you, and we’ve got a few tips and words of encouragement to help you keep going strong.

1. Should I share my first-gen story?

You might sometimes feel like you’re playing catch-up or figuring things out on your own, but being first-gen is actually one of your biggest strengths. You’ve already proven that you’re resourceful, determined, and brave enough to do something brand new.

Colleges love students who bring different perspectives and your story matters. Whether it’s in essays, interviews, or conversations with mentors, don’t be afraid to share where you come from and how far you’ve come.

2. Who can help me as a first-gen student?

It’s okay if you don’t have all the answers - no one does. The key is to find people who can help you along the way.

If you’re in high school, start with your school counselor or the College Planning Center (yes, that’s us!). We can walk you through applications, FAFSA, and scholarships — all for free.

If you’re already in college, seek out first-gen student programs or mentorship groups on campus. Many schools have special resources, meetups, or staff dedicated to supporting first-gen students. You’ll be surprised how many people are eager to see you succeed.

3. How can I learn the “language” of college?

When you’re the first in your family to go to college, it can feel like everyone else is speaking a language you’re still learning; “credits,” “registrar,” “FAFSA,” “office hours”... the list goes on.

Don’t let that discourage you! Ask questions (seriously, as many as you need). Professors, advisors, and financial aid offices are there to help and they want you to reach out.

If you’re still in high school, now’s a great time to get familiar with college terms and processes. Check out the resources available on the CPC site and the rest of our blog for beginner-friendly breakdowns of what all these college-ism's actually mean.

4. How important is it to celebrate my wins?

When you’re a first-gen student, even small milestones are a big deal. Finishing your first semester, getting through FAFSA without tears (mostly), or just finding your way around campus - all of it counts.

You’re doing something that no one in your family has done before. That’s worth celebrating every step of the way.

5. Do I really belong in college as a first-gen?

Imposter syndrome is real, especially when you’re the first to walk this path. You might look around and think, “Everyone else seems to know what they’re doing.” But here’s the truth: no one has it all figured out.

You earned your place. You’re capable. You belong.

And while it can feel overwhelming at times, remember that you have a whole community; teachers, advisors, mentors, and the College Planning Center ready to back you up whenever you need it.

What should first-gen high school seniors focus on right now?

If you’re applying to college this year, take pride in every step of the process; from hitting “submit” on your first application to crafting your financial aid plan.

Here are a few quick reminders for you:

  • Complete the FAFSA as soon as it opens - it’s your gateway to financial aid.

  • Ask for help - your school counselor, teachers, and the CPC team are here to guide you.

  • Look for scholarships made just for first-gen students - you’d be surprised how many are out there! Go exploring on rischolarships.org to check out all the scholarship opportunities available to you!

Most importantly: believe in yourself. You’re not just applying to college, you’re changing what’s possible for your family.

What’s the best advice for first-gen students?

Being a first-generation college student isn’t always easy, but it’s incredibly meaningful. You’re proof that hard work and determination can open doors that once seemed out of reach.

So, to all our first-gen students and future first-gen students - keep going. Keep asking questions. Keep showing up. You’re not just creating your own path, you’re inspiring everyone who follows behind you.